Let the cat come to your eyes or you go to the cat's eyes
Burmese cat
In the process of raising cats, we inevitably encounter times when cats make mistakes. At these times, many owners immediately call the cat to their eyes for strict education. However, over time, you may find that when calling the cat, they are less willing to come to you. This is very likely because you often call them to you for strict education.
To avoid this situation, when educating cats, the owner can go to their side. It should be noted that education must be done properly. You should not lose your temper and scold the cat furiously, otherwise the cat may hide when they see you because your arrival might mean being reprimanded. To "protect themselves," cats may avoid you or even hide in places they consider safe.
If due to improper education, the cat has already developed fear of you, it is not easy to regain their trust. You can use their favorite treats or other incentives to let them know that coming to you or you approaching them brings benefits. They will slowly become less afraid of you. Of course, this may take a long time.
Moreover, do not use incorrect education methods again to discipline the cat. When the cat makes mistakes again, the owner should adopt positive guidance methods for training, otherwise the cat will only become more distant from you. (Source:PetsZone)